Feeling Harmful

Parenting is incredibly tough, and it is okay to admit when you are struggling to cope. If you are experiencing overwhelming feelings or thoughts of causing harm, there are free, confidential services available 24/7 in the UK to support you without judgement.
 

Immediate Crisis Support (24/7)

Emergency Services: If there is an immediate risk of harm to yourself or your child, call 999 or go to your nearest A&E department immediately.

NHS 111: Call 111 and select the mental health option to speak with a trained professional who can direct you to local crisis teams.

Samaritans: Call 116 123 for free, any time of day or night. They offer a non-judgemental listening ear for anyone in distress.

Shout Crisis Text Line: Text the word ‘SHOUT’ to 85258. This is a free, confidential, 24/7 text service for anyone struggling to cope.

NSPCC Helpline: Call 0808 800 5000 for 24/7 help and support from trained counsellors if you have concerns about your own or a child’s safety.

 

Specialist Support for Parents

FamilyLine: While their main phone line is open Mon–Fri (9am–7pm), you can access their free 24/7 crisis support by texting FAMILYACTION to 85258.

YoungMinds Parents Helpline: Call 0808 802 5544 (Mon–Fri, 9:30am–4pm) for advice if you are worried about your child’s mental health or your own ability to support them.

Family Lives: Provides targeted crisis support and a confidential helpline at 0808 800 2222 for any aspect of family life.

 

How to Use This Guide

Prioritise Safety: If you feel you might act on harmful thoughts right now, use the 999 or 111 options immediately.

Talk to Someone Neutral: Reaching out to a service like Samaritans allows you to share difficult feelings privately.

Connect with Peers: When things feel less urgent, you can book a session on CosyChats.com to talk with experienced parents who understand the pressures of child-rearing in a judgement-free space.